Pretend

When you think of the word, what definition stands out the most?

Make believe?
Fiction?
Fantasy?
Role play?

We all play a role. No matter who you are or how in control you think you are. As they say... Life is a just a scene without rehearsal. Each day is a new chapter and is just as unpredictable as the last.

Can you say with complete certainty that you are 100% yourself, 100% of the time?

If you can say yes then you must be the happiest person on Earth because being yourself and feeling comfortable with who you are is difficult in this society.

As children, we would sometimes pretend to be someone we admired or hoped we'd become ourselves.  It was fun and you felt alive and happy doing it because it felt real.  In the back of your mind, you set yourself on a path to making it a reality when you grew up.

As adults, we are still pretending.  It just goes by different names.

The American Dream.

The Standard of Living... house, wife, kids, family vacations, retire.

Some are comfortable pretending.  It has become safe.  Their end game.  Mission accomplished.

Others struggle to continue pretending.  Fighting anything that doesn't fit the picture they have painted in their minds.  The Standard of Living everyone around them expects them to follow.

But if something truly isn't working and not making you happy...

Isn't it time to stop pretending?

 

I challenge all of you to shake up your reality in 2015.  Take the impossible or the "fantasy" of getting something you have wanted for a long time and make a real effort to get it.  It's not about whether you succeed... it's about pretending you already have.

Black Sovereign

 

 

What does Black Mans Revenge mean?

A white sub asked me today if "Black Mans Revenge" means getting what we deserve by making whites crave BBC.

That's one very small way of looking it but you miss the whole picture. Black Man's Revenge (BMR) refers to the accomplishment and achievement of Black MEN owning their own futures. Changing the world by simply being themselves. Embracing their own natural power and strength by believing in themselves.

When you are PROUD of who and what you are, it radiates and draws in others like moths to a flame.

Getting a non-black person to admit that they are a natural-born servants to Black men is the best REVENGE. Why? Because unlike what every other race on this damn planet has demonstrated throughout history... we never FORCED them to do it.

NOW, that's true power. And the ultimate REVENGE.

In Life, There Are No Coincidences

Over the course of my life, I've noticed certain irregularities with the concept of time, space and the notion that any and all events that have or will happen are random.

This mode of thinking has been debated many times throughout our history. If you are religious, you were programmed to believe that a single higher power was at work (intelligent design). If you are more scientific or a realist, you probably believe that there is always a mathematical explanation for everything.

While there is definitely a "design" and "explanation" for just about everything (eventually), in my opinion; there is only one conclusion.

There are no coincidences.

 

ALL matter (solid, liquid, gas) can be broken down into its most basic, native component... energy.

Energy comes in many forms. It is free flowing thus interacts with itself.  None of us would be here right now if that was not true.

Take a magnet for instance.  We all know that the opposite poles (-/+) of two magnets will instantly attract one another but what happens when you flip just one of them (+/+)?  It creates such a negative force that you can never truly put them together, in that state.  This is an example of  "cause and effect".

Life and reality in general works under the same or similar rules. You can't always fully explain the "why" but given the many "discoveries" mankind has uncovered in such a short period of time, it is only a matter of time before even the most unimaginable questions are answered... or at least touched upon.
Here is an example that I want you to think about. It involves an eerie correlation involving a ship called The Titanic, which sank on April 15, 1912.

In 1898, a little known author by the name, Morgan Robertson published a book called "Futility".

It was a story about the largest ocean liner ever built.

On its maiden voyage, it would attract the rich and great of the world.

On an April night, it struck an iceberg.

 

 

Sounds like a coincidence, right?

Continue reading...

 

The author included a very detailed description of the vessel in his book.

The ship in his book weighed 70,000 tons.
The Titanic weighed 66,000 tons.

Robertson's ship was 800 feet long.
The Titanic was 882 feet.

Both were capable of traveling 25 knots.

Both carried about 3000 passengers.

Both only had lifeboats for a fraction of that number.

Both were considered unsinkable.

 

Still a coincidence?

 

The author called his ship... Titan.

 

The book was written and published 14 years prior to the events that happened on April 15th, 1912. Coincidentally, my grandmother was born on April 15th, 1912.

In Life,  there are no coincidences.

Everything happens for a reason... even if that reason isn't always easily identified.

Finding Balance

The problem with finding the right balance of satisfying your "dark" nature with the persona you have been raised/conditioned to present to the world is that we tend to turn into a "Nostradamus". Imagining all kinds of future scenarios that we have no way of knowing would actually happen or not.

One should focus on the present and what works NOW. Not later. Obstacles that may come can be dealt with less trepidation once you have created your "foundation".

That foundation can't be formed until you are capable of acknowledging every part of who you are.

We all live double lives.  Although sometimes overwhelming, Finding Balance is not impossible to achieve.

Confession of a Submissive Dreamer

When considering a sub for service, I want to them to be capable of expressing themselves and their desire to serve effectively and with confidence.  A sub who is on the fence about what he wants does not want it bad enough.  A good fuck, maybe.  But a gamble otherwise.

Recently, I encountered a sub who was very passionate about what he is seeking.  I asked him a simple question:  "What is your aspiration in life?"  And what he shared took me by surprise.  

 

 

Sir, I'm looking to find a Dominant male to serve and please. I long to wake my Master up with a full body massage, followed by oral servitude of his choice. Then breakfast in bed and helping him get ready by attending to all his personal needs.

In the evening he returns to a clean home and home cooked meal. While he eats, he has me massage his feet. After Dinner, i prepare his bubble bath, wash his hair and get him ready for his night out with one of his lovers, if he prefers.

Later in the night he wakes me by putting his cock in my mouth expecting me to clean him and give him one or two more orgasms before he goes to sleep.

i then cuddle up next to him and massage him while he dozes off to sleep. i then hang his clothes up in the closet and make my way to my twin mattress in the closet next to my doggie bowl that has my water for the night.

Sometimes, in the middle of the night, he texts me "#1" which means he needs to pee but doesn't want to get out of bed. I crawl to his bed, pull the covers back and place my mouth on the cock i worship. He then starts to urinate slowly making sure i can accept his stream. Once i get into the flow, he lets lose and i guzzle his warm nectar down which he has taught me to accept or should i say long for. Once he is done, i lick him clean quickly so he can return to sleep.

When i'm lucky enough and he is horny or in between lovers, he uses my ass for his pleasure and I know I may not be allowed to cum until given permission, if at all.

i am his property and i relish in serving him. Of course, the above options as well as others not mentioned are totally based on his needs and desires, not mine.

Sir, I want this dream to become reality so bad. I need to feel like I have a purpose. Like I belong.

You asked once what my aspiration in life is. That is to be happy... in the service of a true Black Master.

My biggest fear? Failing to fulfill my purpose... before my time on this earth has passed.

 

This submissive dreamer definitely captured my attention.

Sierra Leone Quarantines 2 Million to Fight Ebola

CLARENCE ROY-MACAULAY, Associated Press

FREETOWN, Sierra Leone (AP) — Sierra Leone on Thursday took the dramatic step of sealing off districts where more than 1 million people live as it and other West African countries struggle to control the Ebola outbreak that has claimed thousands of lives.

With three new districts under quarantine, about one-third of Sierra Leone’s 6 million people are now living in areas where their movements are heavily restricted. In parts of Sierra Leone and in neighboring Liberia where these cordons have been used in this outbreak, food prices have soared, some markets have shut and the delivery of goods has slowed.

“There is a desperate need to step up our response to this dreaded disease,” the Sierra Leone government said. “The prognosis is that without additional interventions or changes in community behavior, the numbers will increase exponentially and the situation will rapidly deteriorate.”

President Barack Obama warned a meeting at the United Nations on Thursday that the world is not doing enough to stop the outbreak, saying there is “a significant gap between where we are and where we need to be.”

The Ebola outbreak, the world’s largest ever, has hit Sierra Leone, Liberia and Guinea hardest and is believed to have sickened more than 6,200 people. Senegal and Nigeria have also had Ebola cases, but it appears the disease has been contained in those countries.

U.S. health officials warn that the number of infected people could explode to 1.4 million by mid-January, adding that the outbreak could peak well below that if efforts to control the outbreak are ramped up.

The outbreak’s unprecedented scale and geographic spread have pushed governments to impose severe measures like the cordons, but the disease has continued to overwhelm efforts to contain it.

In an address to Sierra Leone on Wednesday night, President Ernest Bai Koroma put Port Loko, Bombali, and Moyamba districts under isolation with immediate effect, allowing only people delivering essential services to enter and circulate within these areas. The restrictions will remain in place until the chain of transmission is broken, officials said.

In other parts of Sierra Leone, including the capital, Freetown, homes will be put under quarantine when cases are identified, according to a government statement. Security forces surrounded a house in a Freetown slum on Wednesday, quarantining residents inside, after a popular herbalist who lived there died from Ebola. The forces will ensure that no one leaves or enters until it’s clear that no one else in the house has been infected.

Two districts near the outbreak’s epicenter — Kenema and Kailahun — were isolated about two months ago. In all, the movement of more than 2 million people is now restricted in Sierra Leone.

A sharp increase of cases in the capital is driving the outbreak’s spread in Sierra Leone, the World Health Organization said Thursday, also noting that the three districts newly cordoned off are experiencing increased infections.

Restricting the movement in these “hotspots” could help to prevent the disease from spreading to new areas, but there’s not much evidence on how this sort of measure works in an Ebola outbreak, said Sebastian Funk, lecturer in infectious diseases at the London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine.

“If transmission of Ebola mostly happens at home, it could make things worse. And it could also potentially seed mistrust and cause people to hide cases,” he said. “It may buy you some time but it is probably not going to stop the epidemic.”

Liberia, the country hardest-hit by the disease, cordoned off a large slum in its capital Monrovia at one point to slow transmission.

But it has continued to see cases balloon in the city. On Thursday, frustrated residents of Monrovia gathered outside the city’s newest treatment center where patients sometimes had to wait for hours to be admitted.

“It is kind of pathetic to come and then see patients lying all on the ground and nobody to even see them,” said resident Abraham Sesay.

Liberia alone needs 1,500 more beds to treat Ebola patients than are being set up, WHO said Thursday. Dr. Frank Mahoney, head of the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention team in Liberia, said at a news conference that teams were racing to meet that need.

“But they (the increasing number of cases) have been outpacing our ability to set them up,” he said.

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The lesson learned here is that we can never been prepared for an epidemic.  There are simply too many people.  I feel for my brothers and sisters in West Africa dealing with this pandemic. Unfortunately, not having a national disaster program in place will make this situation look horrifically like what we experienced here in 2004 in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina.

One would think the world would have learned from our folly...

I guess not.  Thus, is the never ending cycle of history repeating itself.

The Standard

 

Everyone has their own idea of what constitutes a Dominant or submissive standard. Life is confusing enough. The definition should always be straightforward and simple.

If you feel inclined to submit... then submit.
If you feel inclined to dominate... then dominate.
There should be no gray area or exceptions that need to be discussed.

It's a simple, singular focus.  The Standard that primarily defines.

I am a Dominant.

I am a submissive.

In this era of all-inclusiveness and new labels, I can understand how people easily get confused. Too many variables equals too many obstacles. Conforming to one standard that has been around since the beginning of civilization is the true test of finding ones place in this world.

Any other variables will fall into place on its own... in its own time.  Under the primary standard you identify yourself as.

That's the true benefit of knowing who you are.  No conflict or confusion about ones intentions.

 

Are there exceptions?  Of course, there are.  But those variables should find their own place within your primary role.

Not everything can be summed up under one label.  However, our individuality allows us the freedom to compromise, tweak and make it our own.